the insane ex

This is my bitchy side coming out...just warning you..if you cant take it then go no further!!!! "Joshys" boys live in Florida with their mom...he talks to them a couple times a week...on Sunday the boys told him that they went to the beach and had some pictures so" joshy" told them to email him some pics of the two of them. Well of course for whatever reasons the "biatch" has to be a part of everything so she takes it upon herself to email pics instead...which would be perfectly fine...after all "joshy" just wants to see some pics of his boys so it really makes no difference who sends them...right???? Well I'm the one that got the email....oh sure there were pictures of the boys...of course none that were nice face pics so you could actually see it was them...but none the less pictures of his boys....but as I scrolled down further...oh that's nice she has sent us a nice big picture her and her boyfriend (which were good face shots so you could see it was them unlike the ones she sent of the boys)..well isn't that just peachy!!!! Why on earth did she send us this???? We could use it for target practice???? scare the mice away??? She sent these pictures not only to us but also to" joshys" parents...who from what Ive gathered in the last 2 1/2 years that Ive been with" joshy" can not stand this woman....so it leaves me wondering just how crazy must one be to do something like this??? and what on earth would be the reason behind it????? I mean this is the woman that cheated on "joshy" when they were married hence why they are no longer married ... she is now on guy number who knows while "joshy" and I have remained together.....I don't know what makes people do some of the things they do but I swear....
SOME PEOPLE ARE SO FRIKKIN STUPID!!!!!

Question for you???

What would your best friend say makes you great?

This week-end in my little town of 4.000 we had city wide garage sales and there were 62 sales going on!!!!! We picked up a cd burner for the computer, ( yes it works Josh already installed it and burned some music with it),a new computer desk thats big and has shelves and a door, way better then the one we have right now, a shepards hook for the bird feeder, some movies, some cool home decor items, an awesome BIG telescope with stand (josh has been wanting one for a long time so he was super excited about this find!!) , a cd boombox with detachable speakers so we can use it out on the deck this summer, and some toys for the kids I babysit..
all for under $100!!!!! NOW THAT'S A DEAL!!!!

Music 4 Monday

Heres one I haven't heard for awhile....but once I do it gets stuck in my head...its
"BROKEN" by SEETHER and AMY LEE

I am appalled !!!!

It seems the more news I watch on tv or read in the paper the more appalled I become...last night I seen on the world news that a guy hired someone from craiglist to rape his wife!!! Did you hear about this??? If not you can read the story here http://www.charlotteobserver.com/local/story/761914.html These are the things just make me sit and wonder what is happening to this world we live in...what is wrong with everyone...has everyone lost their damn minds?!?!?!

Question for you???

What is your favorite thing to do on the week-end???

*for me its sleep in, along with being able to do what you want to do when you want to do it*

Random pictures

Josh has to drive 50 miles to work each day and on his way he will sometimes take pictures with his phone of the sunrise and send them to me....I think its so sweet cuz he usually sends sweet little text telling me how its as beautiful as me..warms my heart and makes me smile...what an awesome way to start my day!!!!

Favorties 4 Friday

Im so lucky that I have a man that loves to cook!!! Not only that but he LOVES to grill....he has been a grillin fool lately so that is my favorite for friday this week...I mean check these out...ooohhhh man I can't wait for him to get home and fire up that grill!!!!

BRATS..mmm

HAMBURGERS..mmmm

STEAK...mmmmm


RIBS...mmmmmm



Are you hungry?? Should I tell him to be expecting guest for dinner???

Random things that irritate me

People who have rules that they don't follow themselves

Those people who just HAVE to pull out in front of you (when nobody's behind you)
. . . . then go really friggin slow

those irritating people who keep inching forward at red lights then don't go when the damned thing turns green!

Networks who won't keep a show in the same time slot for any amount of time then cancel it because it can't find an audience (well duh we can't find it!!)

Instructions on shampoo bottles

DJ's who keep talking when the song is playing

Anybody who drives slower than me

Those damn semi-transparent network logos that take up the bottom 1/4 of the TV screen

Braille instructions at drive up teller machines. If a person is blind, why the hell would they be driving?

The media

People who gossip too much

People who lose 100+ pounds on the subway diet (yeah right)

The Internet ads that make you hit a target to "win".

When you go past the time you want to set the alarm clock to.

People who stop in the middle of the isle....right in front of you

When you forget what you were going to say

People who don't appreciate what you do for them

When someone is about to tell you something then goes "no wait, never mind"

When you bite your tongue

When a chip bag is half filled with air

Reality tv shows

People who sing a song but don't know the words

People who wear sunglasses inside

Those emails that offer ways to get out of debt, or "great offers on mortgages"

When there are no spots in a parking lot

When you are IMing and someone IMs you and you type in that IM instead of the intended one. Even worse if you send the message to the wrong person

Crappy remixes of old songs

When you are in a hurry and you hit every red light, and get behind every slow car.

When people say,"Can I ask you a question?" This is clearly a question, leaving you no options, as they have already asked you a question

Daylight savings

Dandelions

When, at the movies, the butter only goes on the top layer of the popcorn

When you are drinking something, and it "goes down the wrong pipe"

When your favorite pen runs out of ink

Squirrels that just run right onto the road

When you drive by a dead skunk

When you burn your tongue

Richard Simmons

When you wait at the doctors office for an hour, and see the doctor for 5 minutes

When you dial a number, and you get that loud screeching noise

Movies with subtitles

People who don't leave messages.

When a candy bar melts in the wrapper

Illegal immigrants

When something really irritates you and there is not a damn thing you can do to change it!!!!!

Thought 4 Thursday

Here's something to think about:

Blindfolded and walking alone. That’s what most of us feel in a lifetime full of major risks and decisions. It might seem safer to remain stagnant. But isn’t it more fulfilling if despite the fear of falling, steps were taken? In the end, losing and mistake won’t count. What matters most is the person we turned out to be....not naive but wise and beautifully molded by experiences.

Question for you????

What is your favorite "old school" video game???

What about me 4 Wednesday

A week from today is my birthday...Im already feeling older.....my age never used to bother me but for some reason after I hit a "certain" age it started getting to me real bad...I was going to put a post up letting you guys guess how old you think Im going to be....but I got afraid that everyone would guess me older than I am and I'd only end up feeling worse.....does anyone else have this problem??? Do you hate not so much that your getting older but that you feel you are starting to show that you are......do you think it effects women more than men?????

Question for you????

When you first started blogging....who was your first follower...and do they still follow you??

Toons 4 Tuesday

My 1 day employment

So after landing my new job as a Wal-Mart greeter,
a good find for many retirees,
I lasted less than a day...... About two hours into my first day on the job a very loud,
unattractive, mean-acting woman walked into the store with her two kids,
yelling obscenities at them all the way through the entrance. As I had been instructed, I said pleasantly, 'Good morning and welcome to Wal-Mart.
Nice children you have there. Are they twins?'
The ugly woman stopped yelling long enough to say,
'Hell no, they ain't twins. The oldest one's 9, and the other one's 7.
Why the hell would you think they're twins? Are you blind, or just stupid?' So I replied, ‘I’m neither blind nor stupid, Ma'am,
I just couldn't believe someone slept with you twice. Have a good day and thank you for shopping at Wal-Mart.' My supervisor said I probably wasn't cut out for this line of work.

QUESTION FOR YOU???

Do you do anything now that you're an adult...that you swore when you was younger you would never do when you grew up???

Here is a very short story....

Man driving down road.
Woman driving up same road.
They pass each other.
The woman yells out the window, PIG!
Man yells out window, BITCH!
Man rounds next curve.
Man crashes into a HUGE PIG in middle of road and dies.

Thought For The Day:
If men would just listen!!!!

Music 4 My Monday

Here's my music 4 Monday...another Nickelback song..I just can't get enough of them!!

Feelin' Way Too Damn Good – Nickelback Lyrics from [lyricsyoulove.com]

Feelin' Way Too Damn Good – Nickelback Lyrics from [lyricsyoulove.com]

TOP 20 WAYS TO SAY YOUR FLY IS UNZIPPED

20. The cucumber has left the salad.

19. I can see the gun of Navarone.

18. Someone tore down the wall, and your Pink Floyd is hanging out.

17. You've got Windows on your laptop.

16. Sailor Ned's trying to take a little shore leave.

15. Your soldier ain't so unknown now.

14. Quasimodo needs to go back in the tower and tend to his bells.

13. You need to bring your tray table to the upright and locked position.

12. Paging Mr. Johnson... Paging Mr. Johnson...

11. Your pod bay door is open, Hal.

10. Elvis Junior has LEFT the building!

9. Mini Me is making a break for the escape pod.

8. Ensign Hanes is reporting a hull breach on the lower deck, Sir!

7. The Buick is not all the way in the garage.

6. Dr. Kimble has escaped!

5. You've got your fly set for "Monica" instead of "Hillary."

4. Our next guest is someone who needs no introduction...

3. You've got a security breach at Los Pantalones.

2. I'm talking about Shaft, can you dig it?

And the number one way to tell someone their fly is unzipped...

1. I thought you were crazy, now I see your nuts.

Favorite 4 My Friday

My favorite Im going to post about today is one of my favorite friends...he is always there for me...we have never met face to face...we have only shared emails...text messages..phone calls...and back in the old days chatting online. He came into my life just when I was needing someone the most and well he's stayed no matter what has happened in the last few years,and lets just say ALOT has happened!!! Hes kind of my "go-to" person. We have watched each other grow into better and stronger people...we have watched each other as we raise our kids and deal with the rough times that sometimes come with that....he has watched me go thru my nasty divorce and helped me to never lose faith in myself, and has helped me pull myself together again when times have been too hard to handle. He's laughed with me and he's cried with me...he's helped me to understand a mans point a view...even though most of the time I think their view stinks!! hehe Many miles are between us he's in New York and Im in Nebraska....but nothing can come between the friendship we have built over the years...and I look forward to sharing the years to come.....thanks Tom for being my friend!!!

This is actually the picture I have set so when Tom calls me I get to see this pop up on my phone and so I usually always answer giggling ...and he knows its because I got to see THIS!!!!



What a lovely thing it is
To have a loyal friend
Someone who understands us
On whom we can depend
A friend who sees and knows
Our faults
And likes us anyway
And never seems to take offence
At anything we say
Who helps us through our troubles
Stands by us in our needs
Such friendship transcends
Barriers of color race and creed
For friendship is a precious gift
And we should always treasure
The ones who share our grief
Our joy
Our heartache and our pleasure

Thought 4 My Thursday

"You gain strength, courage, and confidence
by every experience
in which you really stop
to look fear in the face-
You must do the thing
which you think
you cannot do."