tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post7677898793661234857..comments2023-04-09T04:26:06.509-05:00Comments on Thoughts by Dena: What about me 4 Wednesday~Thought's By Dena~/ JDs Gift Shackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12130193626736169866noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-39664511025369871182009-08-28T01:15:54.265-05:002009-08-28T01:15:54.265-05:00you are not selfish...you sound like a wonderful p...you are not selfish...you sound like a wonderful person.......I have those same feelings many days...<br /><br />You have a beautiful blog...Hope you will stop by and visit my new Christmas blog that I launched today.Teresa @ Grammy Girlfriendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05151128140345216126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-32485190764595361542009-08-27T16:09:29.472-05:002009-08-27T16:09:29.472-05:00Of course you're not a bad person. You're ...Of course you're not a bad person. You're human and a mother who is pulled in about 1,356 directions. Of course you're going to reach a point where you just need some ME time. I reached that point a long time ago, and I no longer feel guilty about taking it. I just do. I know that if I don't, all hell will break loose sooner rather than later. :o)Mary@Holy Mackerelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04026873878364041551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-30714811317078305822009-08-27T08:31:25.117-05:002009-08-27T08:31:25.117-05:00NO WAY - you aren't selfish at all! You're...NO WAY - you aren't selfish at all! You're human and you deserve some time for YOU, especially considering all you do for everyone else :)Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01783379570693055648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-8791600559597629872009-08-26T21:50:44.289-05:002009-08-26T21:50:44.289-05:00goodgoodRandhir Singh Sumanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317857556673064706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-37974710998285749262009-08-26T21:11:09.862-05:002009-08-26T21:11:09.862-05:00Don't feel guilty for having this emotion kidd...Don't feel guilty for having this emotion kiddo. We all go through it at various times. I know I do. Sometimes all it takes is a simple thank you to make it all feel better. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. Hugz~Tom~https://www.blogger.com/profile/02867969016263231633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-61303641431614366162009-08-26T20:02:37.439-05:002009-08-26T20:02:37.439-05:00It's ok if it's about you sometimes!It's ok if it's about you sometimes!Jeve (aka John and Steve)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06549658852303570290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-31173555304266408812009-08-26T16:41:45.130-05:002009-08-26T16:41:45.130-05:00Being a Mom is one of the most, if not the most un...Being a Mom is one of the most, if not the most underappreciated job on the planet.<br /><br />You're a really nice person Dena, and you shouldn't feel bad for not being able to be there for everyone all the time.RileyScotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02944320276824503953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-3890293172942879632009-08-26T15:42:11.901-05:002009-08-26T15:42:11.901-05:00You are NOT selfish. I'm sure you're not ...You are NOT selfish. I'm sure you're not thanked as often as you should be too.Meeko Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16195050578794818204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-62732894764204091132009-08-26T15:22:00.795-05:002009-08-26T15:22:00.795-05:00NO NO NO...this is not selfish, we all feel like t...NO NO NO...this is not selfish, we all feel like that, I expect Mother Theresa had moments of it even....it is natural, anyone with any feelings or emotion feels this way at times.<br /><br />I feel like I know you well enough through your blog and comments, to say you are nothing but a loving giving person. <br /><br />i hope you listen to your heart and take some time for you xxxxSally's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01416164953787994180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-22186159378799746342009-08-26T12:50:28.772-05:002009-08-26T12:50:28.772-05:00This certainly isn't selfish in my book! I th...This certainly isn't selfish in my book! I think as moms we all get to feeling that way sometimes..super overwhelmed and just needing some "me" time...better than suffering burn out!! Funny part is, the world will still keep going if we say "stop" just for today.Alicia @ boylerpfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11494653464202092752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-45216353633770469942009-08-26T11:57:57.599-05:002009-08-26T11:57:57.599-05:00You are definitely not selfish. Besides, if you d...You are definitely not selfish. Besides, if you don't take care of yourself, you won't be able to take care of those you love as well. I have to remind myself of that often!<br /><br />And thanks for having faith in me! I'll take all I can get! ;o)Lady of Perpetual Chaoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01434516025772250275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-16514548327347214662009-08-26T11:44:56.561-05:002009-08-26T11:44:56.561-05:00Dena, no, YOU are not wrong to feel this way. You...Dena, no, YOU are not wrong to feel this way. You are a very thoughtful, loving, and caring person. You are not selfish!<br /><br />I would venture to guess that most of us Moms feel this way at some point. I know I do. <br />I have learned to 'listen' to my body. When I need a 'jammie' day, I take it!!! If we get burned out nothing works wells.<br /><br />So, take a day, or 2, and sleep, read, watch a favorite movie or series, indulge in a favorite food, take a hot bath and relax.<br /><br />Tomorrow is another day and all the laundry, dust, and clutter will still be there!<br /><br />We love you,<br />Carrie<br />XXXXCozyflierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01246670931088678205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976163209969241255.post-19829422862994482222009-08-26T11:33:53.997-05:002009-08-26T11:33:53.997-05:00Dena, NO YOU are NOT a bad person. YOU are a very...Dena, NO YOU are NOT a bad person. YOU are a very LOVING, CARING, and THOUGHTFUL person. <br /><br />I would venture to guess that most of us Moms feel this same way, I know I do. I usually chalk it up to a fibro flair of something.<br /><br />I've learned to 'listen' to my body and when I need a down day or a jammie day I do it! <br /><br />AJ, my 5th grader every once in awhile will say, I think Mom needs a SPA DAY! How he knows what a spa day is, is beyond me!<br /><br />But, take a day, or 2! Rest, read, watch a favorite movie, indulge in a favorite food. You will feel much better. Soak in a hot bath with candles. I know, you watch kiddos, kind of hard to do, but don't you dare feel guilty for feeling this way.<br /><br />We all love you!!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />CarrieCozyflierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01246670931088678205noreply@blogger.com